Have you ever felt as if the world was against you? That no matter how hard you try nothing goes your way?
Well I’m here to tell you that change is possible and the world that you think you’re living in can change for the better. There is so much out there to learn and explore but it starts with one simple step, realization.
In this article I will show you several ways to start your journey of becoming the best version of yourself and live a more fulling life.
I know what it feels like when it seems like there are so many things in front of us that we can’t do anything about because they’re just too big. It’s not true though!
Finding ways to become better in life for those around you can be one of the toughest things to do. But it will also be the most rewarding at the end of the day.
Read on if you wish to be more in life, feel more free, at peace, and well rounded with those around you and for those you will meet.
Be open to realizing that there is more one can do in this life to be better
As we grow older and experience the stages of life, we tend to have a certain perception of what life is and depending on how you were raised you either look at life as a blessing or are sucked into the idea of the world being against you.
Whether you grew up In a low income family or a wealthy family, we have to realize that there is still more room for growth. We have this idea of wanting to stop growing or be better once we have a comfortable setting. But the reality is, life is a never ending growing cycle. The moment we choose to stay comfortable and stop growing is the moment where you stop living.
When you realize that life is a never ending cycle of growth and certain exercise and activities can help you achieve that growth, that’s when you start becoming the best version of yourself.
Know your habits, the good ones and the bad ones
As humans we are prone to develop certain habits as we grow, the way one showers, eats, spends their free time. They are all habits that are built upon us throughout our lives.
In order to become better one must first know their habits, whether they are good ones or bad ones. The realization of your habits will be one of the biggest game changers that will lead you to live a better life.
The reason for this is because once you know your habits, you can start acting upon them consciously. We don’t tend to pay attention to our daily habits, because we are so use to them that it becomes normal. But once you realize that you are able to change them and build better one’s, that’s where you life changes.
Work towards developing meaningful and fulfilling habits
We are all different and with that comes different habit developments as well as different ways that a habit can fulfill our lives.
I ask that you look into what you enjoy doing and brings meaning to your life. What in the past few weeks or months have you done that truly make you feel at peace with yourself?
Now I’m not talking about drugs, alcohol, partying, eating junk food, watching movies, again these are habits that only give you a quick pleasure and at the end just make you feel worse and feel as if life has no meaning.
Im talking about what brings you true joy, perhaps it’s walking, drawing, reading, exercising, swimming, the habits that eventually will compound and make your life have more meaning because those are things you actually want to do.
When you start changing your habits consciously, with activities that make your mind, body and soul feel alive then you will start seeing the light and realize how much better we can all be.
Stick with your newly developed habits
The hardest thing to do when you realize you can be better is sticking with your newly developed habits.
Being consistent with something is the most challenging part of all of this. But that is what will get you to become the best version of yourself for you and those around you.
I first learned this as I was trying to be better. I would only workout for a certain amount of days, every other day you could say with the weekends off. I would see no results when I was doing that and would question why I wouldn’t lose weight or see change.
Then I realized I was not consistent and on top of that I wouldn’t have the healthiest meals either. However, once I started being consistent and applying all the good habits then that’s when I started seeing change. Not only that but the quality of my life also got better.
Sticking with your habits will take you further than working hard for a couple of days and not staying consistent, so remember sticking with your newly developed habits will be critical in the life of growth.
People will look at you differently when you start changing your life and way of being
One of the biggest conflicts that we have for not changing our habits to be better even though we know and are aware what we are doing doesn’t bring us true happiness is those around us.
As much as we love and want to see those around us happy, we have to realize that once we start growing and wanting to be better they will look at you as if you are crazy. The reason for it is that the majority of people in the world don’t want to be better or don’t put in the effort and consistency that it takes to be better. So again, don’t let that drag you down. Life is all about growth and when you start changing your life, you will outgrowth so many people in your circle that you will become the odd one which means you are doing something right.
You are working to be the best version of yourself but as you grow and grow, the people around will stop looking down on you and instead look up to you which is the whole point of starting this. To make yourself feel better so those around can be better as well.
Never Stop Growing!
Life is a never ending cycle, when certain life is gone, new life is born. The cycle always repeats itself and we have to be aware of that. Truth lies in between life and death, what are we doing with our time while being alive, are we watching tv all day, eating junk food everyday, letting time just go by. You see, as humans we feel as if we already have it down. Once we reach a certain level of success we stop growing, we believe that that’s how life is suppose to be. But I am here to tell you life is so much more than just being successful.
We can all achieve greatness, we can all be better no matter what phase we are in life. Life is a never ending cycle, and we have to understand the most fulfilling and meaningful way to live is by consistently growing and trying to become the best version of ourselves while our time here on earth.
I hope everyone can see life in a different perspective from all of this and I would enjoy listening to what you guys do to live a more fulling and meaningful life.
Thank you all for your time.